How To Get What You Want In A Relationship – The Spiritual Truth

You will never get what you want most from an intimate relationship. Simply because we’re not programed to receive it. “It” is something that was denied to us as children from our parent, or parents. And we spend the rest of our life seeking it in various distractions; money, physical image, body shape, social status, [...]

11 Rules of Making Relationships Between Men and Women Work By Theun Mares

RULE 1: TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HAVING THIS PERSON IN YOUR LIFE. It takes two to tango, so stop trying to play the blame game. See your own role in, and your own contribution to, what is happening in your relationship (romantic, professional, etc.) RULE 2: DON’T TREAT THE OTHER PERSON IN YOUR LIFE ANY DIFFERENTLY [...]

Finding Love By Feeling Alone

Only within the full magnitude of loneliness does true love begin to take root. Grasping for an “other” instead of delving within the dark chasm of our loneliness only leads us further from the love we all seek. Love is the knowing and the feeling of unity. That we are one, and that our enemies [...]

Getting What You Want Most

You will never get what you want most from an intimate relationship.  Simply because we’re not programed to receive it. “It” is something that was denied to us as children from our parent, or parents. And we spend the rest of our life seeking it in various distractions; money, physical image, body shape, social status, [...]

Intelligent Cooperation, Part II

“Unless the proper interaction, or intelligent co-operation, between males and females takes place, then the evolution of awareness does not proceed intelligently, we get resentment and strife, and we end up with the kind of mess we see in the world today. Because the unknown is a mystery, and will always remain so, the mystery [...]

Projecting Anger in a Relationship

Anger…  When the masculine in us gets stressed its due to a sense of overwhelm and feeling constricted, and not free.  The way the masculine responds is by blaming outward.  The feminine in all of us gets stressed due to not feeling love, and the expression of this is depression. The feminine’s role in an [...]

Then said Almitra, Speak to us of Love…

“When love beckons to you follow him, Though his ways are hard and steep. And when his wings enfold you yield to him, Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you. And when he speaks to you believe in him, Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste [...]

“And what of Marriage, master?”

“Then Almitra spoke again and said, And what of Marriage, master? And he answered saying: You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore. You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days. Aye, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God. But let there be spaces [...]

Conscious relationships

The biggest mistake people in relationships make is that they relate to the other person’s mind and body, rather than their essential being. Of course this mistake can’t be avoided until we stop identifying with our own mind and body. Only when we begin to embody our true essence can this even begin. This happens [...]

Intelligent Cooperation

“The nature of the female is that she brings forth from out of her own depths fragments of the unknown which it is the duty of the male to make practical upon the physical plane.  Because it is he who has the ability to reason out what the female has intuited.  To this effect the [...]