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Projecting Anger in a Relationship

Anger…  When the masculine in us gets stressed its due to a sense of overwhelm and feeling constricted, and not free.  The way the masculine responds is by blaming outward.  The feminine in all of us gets stressed due to not feeling love, and the expression of this is depression.

The feminine’s role in an enlightened and conscious relationship is to let her “kali” energy out and “chop off” her partner’s head if he is being less than conscious and present.  This can look like anger, and if it doesn’t come from a place of heart centered love, and the result isn’t a peaceful and electric feeling in the air afterwards (like after a thunderstorm), then it is toxic dumping and NOT female kali energy.

Ultimately every relationship and human story is slightly different, so it depends on what you guys are angry about.  And within that are the keys.  There’s also the whole imago thing…

At the root of all relationship problems I think is the tendency to relate to each other’s minds and bodies, rather than to each others’ beings.  If we identify with our mind and body, then we can’t help but relate to the other person on that level too.  Men tend to do this a lot more.  And women more and more… But women can easily and quickly shift beyond mind and body into being – if they are safely led there and are willing.  On the level of being; past and future dissolve and only heart and being exist.  Which melts all anger and toxic emotions, to allow for gifting and serving and real love in the moment.

 

— Blaise

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